
What makes a hero? Were are so used to seeing what a hero is suppose to look like or how they should act, but to be one is truly another story. It made me think of females as heroes, and why is it that their now shown saving the day, yet still hidden in the shadows. Of course there always is superwoman, but without even knowing what she really does, even I just assumed she is just a symbol for an attractive hero in tights. Were not always exposed to such heroic stories, especially with women sadly, but recently I read a book that fiction it may be, A thousand splendid suns simply blew me away!
The story of 2 remarkable strong women named Mariam and Laila living in Afghanistan who are brought together under unfortunate desperate circumstances. With Mariam being nineteen years older than Laila, they both are sister wives of a man who takes them in during a war. Both of their pasts are completely different. Mariam, being a poor woman who grew up in a small house abandoned by her father, and Laila a financially stable girl with a passion for education. The story reveals two women, Laila actively allowed to speak her mind and encouraged to be a strong woman in the Afghan society, and Mariam not allowed to be educated what so over. When both of them are forced into marrying a man they don’t desire neither of them can understand why they are brought into this situation. But both women begin to realize that they have more in common than just an inhumane manipulative husband Rasheed, whom they were both forced to marry in their teens. During the bloody wars in Afghanistan, as women they are taken away all their rights. The Tailban makes sure that women know what their place is in the country.
You will not, under any circumstances, show your face. You will cover with burqa when outside. If you do not, you will be severely beaten.
You will not wear charming clothes.
You will not speak unless spoken to.
You will not make eye contact with men.
You will not laugh in public. If you do, you will be beaten.
You will not paint your nails. If you do, you will lose a finger.
Girls are forbidden from attending school. All schools for girls will be closed immediately
Women are forbidden from working.
If you are found guilty of adultery, you will be stoned to death.
Listen. Listen well. Obey.
Until one day when Rasheed’s physical abuse went a little too far and came close to taking away Laila’s life. It was than when Mariam did perhaps the only right thing to do when someone’s life is at risk. Mariam saved Laila by killing Rasheed with a shovel before he could kill the young girl. And of course, she was the hero and stopped such a violent action being taken place in such a misogynistic society. Ofcourse, due to her saving another WOMAN and killing a MAN, she had to be put to death. What is sad is that religion is used and manipulated in an entirely wrong way. That due to “religion” Matriam had to be put to justice. It’s not even about gender at this point, is simply about saving an innocent life. I truly believe we live in a society where both woman and men are acknowledged fairly for their heroic acts, but this doesn’t happen in all parts of the world.
1. Do you think that in a situation like this that perhaps it’s males who fear the capability of women, that they failed to recognize what the male in this situation tried to do , over what the female tried to stop?
How do you think heroism and gender differ? That even till today, is a male hero seen “saving the day”, far superior than a female saving the day?
Inluding the situation with Mariam, and today’s society, is male heroism hailed and females hidden?